JOURNAL 4

                                                        DECISIONS IN LIFE

       

                  Many people have to make selection in different part of their life. They have to decide about their business life, private life, physical appearance,education etc.Their decisions according to some factors.For axample university students decide where to stay during university education.While some of them choose to live with their families, others choose to live at college. These two options have different qualities.

            

           In monetary terms, the students who choose to live with their families are lucky. They eat at home and don’t pay for the meals.Their parents provide their needs. The students who live at home are relaxed.They do what they want. They don’t need to stay away from their families, miss their home.They sleep in their own bed and eat different meals which their mother prepare. When they have a problem, they share it with their families and they can handle it. Although living at home has advantages, it has also difficulties about transportation. The students’ home can be far away from the university and because of this, they waste a lot of times on the way. As to friendship, they don’t spend much time with their friends. Since they live at home, they don’t see each other frequently.

             

                            For the students who choose to live at college, life is more difficult. In contrast to the students who live at home, they are far away from their families. They miss them, their beds, brothers, mothers’ meals so much. Generally they eat outside and this situation causes to spend too much money. They have to provide their own needs by themselves and pay to dormitory fee and pay attention to their outcomes different from the students who live at home. When they have a problem, they have to handle it themselves. Some dormitories have some rules and students have to obey to these rules and this situation makes the students a bit stressful. They aren’t relaxed. But they don’t have difficulties in transportation in contrast to who live at home. If their dormitory is at the university’s campus, they can get to the university and don’t waste their time. And friendship is important at college.They have a lot of friends at college. As opposed to the students who live at home, they spend time with their friends and help each other when they need.

              

              To sum it all up, these two life styles for university students are advantegous and disadvantegous at the same time. Every student chooses one of them according to his/her situation. In my opinion, living at home feels perfect but living at college prepare us for life. It teaches us to handle difficulties by ourselves. When we live at college, we understand that friendship is very important and necessary. I am not regret living at college.